Ways To Keep Your Man

Now that I have a man, I look at how women carry themselves a lot more. I also realize that I shake my head a lot more often as well. Not because I'm better off with an amazing boyfriend, but because there are so many dumb ass mistakes being made by grown women it's sad. From the pussy trap, unneccesary jealousy, or severe lack of self-esteem, the women I see are just setting themselves up for all types of failure.

First and foremost, NO WOMAN SHOULD BE IN A RELATIONSHIP IF THEIR SELF CONFIDENCE IS NON EXISTENT OR EASILY BROKEN Ive posted entries before focusing on knowing who you are, mainaining your personality, mindset, and values at all costs. To be comfortable with who you are is key to being a decent partner. Your man (provided that you're dating one of those) is supposed to grow with you, not teach you how to become a woman. In marriage two become one. There are no halves in that equation and no man will "complete you". You are complete on youre own, embrace that shit and live your life.

Remember that you're man had a life before you. No one wants to be reprimanded for things they did in the past, you're man is no different. Holding onto past ish that had nothing to do with you will make you REALLY hard to deal with. There will be ex-girlfriends, old booty buddies, former crushes, possible unresolved issues, and there may be that one chick that just doesnt get he's no longer available. DEAL WITH IT. He is not with you because he didnt have any other options. He picked you because he felt you were up to the challenge on being his girlfriend. Plus, you know full well if some of the bones in your skeleton fell from the top shelf of the closet, you would rush for the nearest broom to sweep it up.

KEEP IT SEXY. KEEP IT SEXY. KEEP IT SEXY. While this rule is usally reserved for those going into at least a decade of wedded bliss, growing relationships need to abide by this rule as well. Don't be the girlfriend that got comfortable after you circled yes on the will you go with me note. At this stage of the relationship, youre supposed to be having as much fun as possible. Be goofy. Be random. Have lots and lots and lots of hot freaky sex. Because if he is the one, time for these things will lessen overtime and soon you will only have the memories. Let's try not to make them sucky ones. K?